I returned home from work tonight, and before making dinner, I opened the freezer, slipped out a half-gallon of my favorite ice cream, and dished out a small bowl. I stood in front of the heater, savoring every spoonful of peanut butter and chocolate chips while feeling the warmth from the fire on my backside and toes.
I’ve also been dreaming of making homemade macaroni and cheese with a warm batch of homemade bread. I noticed I’m sleeping almost an hour more each night, too. This is not like me. What’s up with that?
Cabin fever. Wintertime blues. Seasonal affect disorder (SAD). How do you know if you are in the grips?
It’s mid-January and we are in the thick of it. I asked my husband for his advice on combating cabin fever. He replied, “Know your smart TV. Televisions today are not the same as the ones we had 20 years ago. A wealth of content is waiting to be discovered if you know how to run your remote. If you don’t, find someone to teach you. YouTube, which you can watch on a smart TV, offers an array of documentaries, instructional videos, and interesting shows.”
It’s good advice, so please don’t laugh at my next suggestion: reduce screen time by unplugging and engaging with others during your day. Instructional videos and documentaries can be engaging, but they can’t replace real-life connections.
As a University of Wyoming Extension educator specializing in community vitality and health, I developed Winter Survival Skills and Cabin Fever presentations for seniors.
No one is immune to cabin fever. It affects children, too. I used to advise my daughter-in-law: “Put the best toys in a box and store them until winter, then bring them out when cabin fever begins.” We can do the same for ourselves.
I told my sister, who is displaying symptoms of the wintertime blues in Yuma, Arizona, that I believed she may have cabin fever. She replied, “What’s cabin fever? I haven’t been in any cabins.” Then, we both laughed. In all seriousness, I do think she may have cabin fever. Sometimes, a conversation is all it takes to improve another person’s outlook.
Knowledge is power. If we understand why we stop in the kitchen for a mouthful of treats when we are not hungry or why we snap without cause, we are more likely to control the urges and change our behavior.
If your symptoms are becoming more serious, reach out to a friend, call a local counselor for a chat by phone or Zoom, or if need be, call 988 for crisis intervention. There is no shame in asking for help. Sometimes, all it takes is someone who listens and who has the skills to reframe our thoughts or offer tips.
As rancher Stan Flitner says, “Cowboy up and talk about it.”
As we age, we watch our hair turn gray and the wrinkles appear, as if our mirrors have quietly switched to “high-definition honesty mode.” It’s a process we observe over decades, one strand, one line, one mysterious ache at a time.
Aging has a way of quietly rearranging our lives.
In recent years, gratitude has gained attention not just as a feel-good practice but as a powerful tool for improving mental health, especially among older adults. Research supports that gratitude has the power to heal.
